01715 a2200157 4500 25794 25794 9780190866853 155.25 KOT-C Kottler, Jeffrey A. Change : what really leads to lasting personal transformation Oxford University Press 2018 New York ix, 357p Include Index Change is often a mystery, one that baffles doctors, therapists, teachers, coaches, parents--and especially those of us who struggle to alter our own bad habits or make lasting improvements in our lives. Why do we suddenly change for the better after years of failed efforts? Why do some of us never escape our self-destructive behaviours, even when we desperately want to? What is it that most reliably and effectively produces growth, learning, and development that persist over time? In this vividly written volume, psychotherapist Jeffrey Kottler weaves together inspiring stories and the latest research, taking the reader on a fascinating exploration of human behaviour while highlighting what does--and does not--lead to lasting change. Kottler illuminates our many efforts to change--to stop taking drugs, reduce dependencies, leave a destructive relationship, find new and more meaningful work, or adjust to a devastating accident or trauma. Readers are invited to explore key triggers such as hitting bottom, moments of clarity, the power of altruism and service, travel to new surroundings, reading or listening to stories, religious conversion, and much more. Kottler also explores why most changes don't last and what we can do to prevent relapses. Psychology Change (Psychology) Stress Management ddc BK 0 0 0 0 NASSDOC NASSDOC 2019-12-27 OP 1036.62 2019-12-20 1 155.25 KOT-C 50637 2023-01-18 00:00:00 2022-08-08 1420.04 2019-12-27 BK